How many of you have been to a pride parade, seen rainbow ads, worn a pride pin? Probably a good number if not most of you. PRIDE is a wonderful symbol of community and inclusivity, and by 2016, it has permeated every facet of our culture. Our advertising, our media, our clothing. It’s also a Multi-Billion dollar industry run almost exclusively by rich white men. So how did it all get started? In 1969, Trans Women of color were tired of being brutalized and harassed and murdered by police officers. This culminated in the Stonewall Riots which started what would become the “Pride” movement. In this early movement, the major tenants included an end to police brutality, an end to homelessness, an end to discriminatory policies and, surprisingly, not marriage. Marriage didn’t actually enter the scene until much later in the movement, and it was actually introduced when the movement took on a very different face.
Bruce Bastian is the CEO of the Blogging site WordPress, and at one point his net worth was 1.4 BILLION dollars. But he’s also a senior board member for the Human Rights campaign. He is clearly a powerful fixture in the largest equality based nonprofit in America who also happens to be white, a billionaire, and 61 years old. That in itself is not an issue, but when I extensively researched the founders, presidents and governing boards of all of the other major LGBTQ foundations, a surprising trend started to emerge. They were all white, they were all prominent businessmen and women at other multi-million dollar companies, and none of them were trans identifying.
So if that’s what the leaders of today’s pride movement look like, what do you think the movement itself looks like nowadays? It’s actually quite surprising to see so many differences in modern PRIDE movements. Now, they’re fighting primarily for marriage equality, greater representation in the media, and an end to teenage suicide. These companies still do amazing work for a lot of good causes, but they’re increasingly putting out the idea that the most important battle is the battle for marriage, and after that, the battle is over, and we’ve achieved full equality among men. However, at the same time, police brutality is on the rise, and 40% of homeless youth are LGBT. These issues didn’t just go away after the Stonewall Riots; they’ve been systematically moved to the back-burner, and it’s our job to figure out why. See, in the 1980s, gay white men who didn’t have to deal with police violence or homelessness found themselves forced into the movement when the AIDS crisis began. Once these rich white dudes got into the movement, they used their money and their power to start their own groups or take over existing ones to better serve their interests. Interests that primarily included ,arriage, representation in the media, and queer suicide. All very important things, but we have to also look at the things that are taking a backseat. Police violence is still a HUGE issue, especially among trans women of color. Homelessness is on the rise among queer folks in major cities, and in some states, you can be turned away at a hospital because you are gay, trans, or are perceived as gay or trans. In addition, many places in the US still accept the “gay panic” defense, basically saying that if I were murdered, my murderer could have his charges lessened because he thought I was coming on to him. ALL of these are issues that could be swiftly dealt with on a political level if those with the power and the money to act on them actually gave two cares about them. When we put rich white men at the helm of our charities, however, the only charity that will be done will be in the service of rich white men.
So what is the solution? We need to stop giving our money to these faceless corporations that are trying to sell us this rainbow-colored lifestyle. We need to support grassroots organizations. Most of you have local LGBT centers you don’t even know about that affect real change in your communities, and are being overlooked in the face of these larger corporations with better marketing schemes to solicit donations. We must especially support intersectionality through organizations like Black Lives Matter, and most of all, never stop educating ourselves, and never stop educating others. We are in an age that allows us to make real change, we just need to work together to craft a real movement that can do it.
